1.) I believe the most important rule is respect. The older I become the more familiar the word becomes to me and the more i realize how important it is. I choose only this one rule because if it is followed, other rules and principles will fall in its path. For example if you are in a relationship with someone and you respect them, chances are you are going to care about them which means you will be kind and faithful. I learned this trait from my Father. My father and I never really got along until recently, of course I realize why now. I never respected him, and it always had a negative consequence, but then one day I realized I needed to step up to the plate and show some respect, I did and we have been best friends since. Of course my whole life I thought I “hated” him because he was such a hard ass and blah blah, but in reality he sculpted me into who I am today, someone that respects his surroundings. Of course this principle has been challenged in my life, many of times. I used to have some friends that had absolutely no respect for anything, and of course to fit in i had to do similar acts, which got me no where but trouble. I would consider adopting new principles as long as they benefited my life.
2.) I have this problem where I tend to care more about how others feel than myself. I feel obligated to make other people satisfied and happy. I do not know if this is a bad thing or not. For some reason I feel that I am obligated to be in a relationship with someone and be the best boyfriend. This sounds sweet and all but it has not worked for me at all, I think the problem is that I get so tied up in my significant other that i forget who it truly am. I need to learn to feel obligated to not only make others happy but make myself happy as well.
3.) A good person is someone who respects their surroundings and follows the “norm” of the general rules/laws given by an authority.
4.) Of course it can be both! We are always in search of happiness in our lives, but we use our rules and principles while doing so.




